Some men view a single mother as a burden and a no no when it comes to dating or marriage, they see it difficult to love a woman with another man’s child but what they don’t know is that if you will the love of a single mom, you’ve hit the relationship jackpot.
“A single mother is that female who bears a child and raising that child alone. Single mothers are not married and they hold all the family responsibilities”. There is no love as selflessly and fiercely as a woman who’s raised her kids or one who has raised her kids on her own or mostly on her own.
If you really love her, loving her children will be no obstacle.
1. Focused: “Single mothers are the best people to marry because they have seen it all, they have cried and laughed enough and are ready to settle with a ready man and make families”.
2. Understanding: “Since she is being used with catering for herself and her kid, it is easy for her to understand any situation especially financial constraints, if a chance allows, do not drop it just marry her”.
3. Supportive and caring: “Yes, she knows the pain of being abandoned so she can’t wish to see her husband being abandoned, she will be loving, caring and so supportive”.
4. No time wasting: “She is mature, experienced she must hate time wasters and she won’t waste time in non-developmental ventures, production will increase, hence financial uplift in the family, time is money, here you have already earned it brother”.
Here are more reasons!
They change diapers, feed, do laundry, clean (and then clean some more). On top of doing everything in the home, they have to shuffle everywhere.
They shuffle to daycare. They shuffle to band practice. They shuffle to soccer practice. They shuffle to their ex’s for custody arrangements. It is a lot of shuffling around and takes a hell of a lot of self-discipline not to just lose your mind.
And guess what? This builds character — a lot more character than that giggling Tinder hookup who didn’t know why we celebrate Independence Day.
No, not like the girl who claims to be independent and then ends up being clingy as hell.
Single moms are so busy that they pretty much can only connect on a certain set schedule — when they don’t have their kids.
At least this is true for when you first start dating. Why is this so great? You basically have the best parts of both worlds: the girlfriend and the flexibility of being single.
Single moms don’t care if you want to have a guys’ night. They want their alone time too because they never get it.
We could go on. There are so many positive traits that single moms possess because of the personal growth they went through and continue to go through with child rearing.